Music Is The Wine That Fills The Cup of Silence. ~ Robert Fripp
Let’s Blog Over Wine…
I’m drinking the non-alcoholic red blend by Fre. I have a lot of questions in my inbox, and I promise I’m going to get to everyone’s questions. Just not today, lol. Here goes!
Congrats on your baby boy! Cutest announcement ever. Are you having a baby shower?
Thank you! I am having a baby shower this upcoming August. I’m so excited. It’s going to be super cute! 🥰
Can you link your gray loose sweatpants?
Yes. These are seriously my favorite sweatpants. I have them in every color. You can grab them here.
Do you have any good vegan recipes?
Lol, no. Ralph went vegan the beginning of this year, and let’s just say that’s not my forté. I’m good at making beans and lentils though. The tofu and so forth… yea you can miss me on that. I stay in my lane when I need to.
Girl I need help! I have a lemon tree and now I have all of these lemons. What can I make with this besides lemon water?
LOL! I don’t know why I find this to be so funny!!! There is so much you can do with lemons. I make salad dressing, chicken, pies… I’ll do a post to help you out.
Congrats on your new baby! He’s so cute!!!
I’m definitely still pregnant. That was my little cousin, Mylan. He’s 3 weeks old. He is pretty cute though. 😉
Do you think working as hard as you do has taken away from your marriage to your husband?
Ralph and I have argued over me working a lot. He wanted me home at a certain time and dinner made by a certain time. Foot down. I was on my 9 to 5 with a side of hustle ish. It wasn’t really 9 to 5. It was longer most days, so I could get why he was frustrated. He must have felt how I felt when he was gone all the time, lol. 🤷🏽♀️
How did you decide on naming your son after his dad?
Ralph and I made a deal, and when I presented it to him to consider another name all entire HELL broke loose in my household. That’s another story. So we agreed again, and decided we’ll call him Q. I’ve been calling him Quatro, lol.
How do you get your hair in those loose waves? The waves in your hair are always gorgeous. Can you share some tips? #QuestionsThatNeedAnswers
My hair is just like this. My hair is curly. After I straighten my hair it might last a few days and the waves just come in. It’s just my hair.
I saw how you ran into your ex. Said whaddup to his bestest. Saw ya’ll reminicising how ya’ll used to flex in Texas, and I was jealous! LOL! Saw what I did there? What was the name of the restaurant you all were at? He looked so excited to see your pregnant belly! He’s sweet.
Come on Beyoncé! That was the most suitable song for my instagram story. We were at Abouzy. Sir James is always excited, and always a good time. He was happy to see me pregnant. He thought I was cute with a bump, lol.
As it relates to relationships and heartbreak, what did you do to get past your first real loss? I’ve followed you awhile and I know how intense your relationship with your ex fiancé was. I’m in a similar situation and I’m trying to get through it.
😳 This really caught me all the way off guard. I almost feel like I need to pass on this question. He was easy to get over. I would say that my heart was never really in it. He knew that, and it bothered him. No one except my husband, Ralph, has ever had my heart. Ralph and I are each others first loves. But even that has its own share of headaches and heartaches too. Nothing is perfect. NOTHING! Give it time, but if you really want it to work, I’d say let him know. Sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us, and we live in regret later. Take some time to figure out what you want. Space and time does so much.
I am so happy you’re on YouTube! Your intro video had me hype! When will you post an actual video?
I have a bunch of videos made and I just haven’t gotten around to posting them on my channel. My plan is to do that sometime soon.
How did you cope with early morning sickness?
I didn’t. Hyperemesis almost killed me. I mean that when I say that. It was scary. It was to the point of them saying my husband needed to make decisions for me and the baby.
Have you felt any baby kicks yet?
Yes. He’s having a party in my belly right now.
Do you have any stretch marks or cellulite?
I do not. Thank God! That was one of my biggest fears.
Have you ever traveled alone?
I’m known for traveling alone and disappearing on people.
Hi Ralijah! Can I get that seafood pasta recipe? Something similar at least? Every time you make that it seems like your ig comments blow up!!! I want to taste it.
I can’t give you that recipe because that’s just one I won’t give away, but I can get a similar one posted for you soon. But if you ever want a pan let me know… They go crazy for it for a reason.
What do you consider to be your biggest flaw?
I would say that I really don’t care about anything at all, until I do, and then I really, really care. Does that make sense?
You always seem so cool, calm, and collected. Is there anything you actually struggle with?
I usually am ALWAYS cool, calm, and collected. The only person that ever makes me lose my cool is Ralph. That man knows how to get under my skin, and likewise. Lately I’ve just been cool though. No one has been getting under my skin.
You have an amazing R&B playlist on your stories. Is there an actual playlist you can share?
Yes. My Spotify playlist is here.
What’s something you really want right now?
Abs and Tequila. Peace and Happiness. A clear state of mind.
I was really looking forward to you and Ralph taking that Bali trip in March. What happened?! I live through ya’ll.
Is this a serious question? COVID 19, Ralph, and this trifling chick named Brittany happened. 🤷🏽♀️
Have you gained any weight? I noticed that your wedding rings keep slipping off of your finger.
I’m still pretty small, but I’ve gained some weight. I’m a cool 134lbs as of today.
So I found your baby registry, except it’s password protected. I also found your Pinterest board for your baby shower. Super cool theme. I’m interested to see in how it comes together, lol. Can we get a password to the registry though?!
Howwwww??? 🤨 I’m not giving out the password until it gets closer to the baby shower date. I thought all of my boards on Pinterest were private…
You haven’t made that jambalaya in awhile. I have seen no instagram videos on this for awhile. Can I get a video for that?
I definitely haven’t made that in awhile. I will post my recipe for that.
I loved your pregnancy crop top and denim jacket you wore to have pizza! LOL! You are so cute! Can you link that ENTIRE outfit, please?! It’s casual, but cute!
- The white crop top you can get here.
- The denim jacket is here.
- The leggings you can order here.
- My kicks you can snatch up here.
- My Tom Ford sunglasses are no longer sold. There are similar ones everywhere though.